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28 Nov

As I said in a comment today, men have more options now than ever before.

Between the fact that fewer women are marrying and how more and more women are taking a more casual attitude towards sex, men have a bevvy of options from which to choose.

They don’t have to abide by certain guidelines or expectations anymore.

I have to ask, though, why a woman at the very end of an age range of 42-52 would even bother going to such an event?

And these are men who in actuality, by looking and talking to them, cannot afford to be so picky.

Unfortunately, Susan, the men do get to be a bit more picky. But they do have some wiggle room that women don’t.

Our New York County singles are in the 212/646/917 area code, and might live in these or other zip codes: 10045, 10080, 10269, 10275, 10265, 10260, 10270, or 10004 personals.

Obviously, you are free to pursue men of whatever age you like.

But if you know that most men will want the younger women, then why set yourself up for disappointment? While some organizations, mine for instance, don’t offer events for the over 50 crowd because they are almost impossible to fill for men, some do. I realize there is a dearth of events for your age range. Filling events for that age bracket is daunting task.

Question: This is not a question, but a suggestion: When you list the ages for a speed-dating party, it would be helpful if you listed for instance: Men 40-55 and Women 35-45.

You have no idea how it feels to be a woman on the older end of the scale, and not get picked, even once, by any of the men, just because they only want to date the younger ladies.